You’ve spent years perfecting your professional resume. You’ve had it reviewed, rewritten, and tailored to every job application. It’s polished, professional, and gets you interviews.
But what about your dating “resume”? Your profile, your photos, your conversation style – they’re a mess. You’re presenting yourself to potential partners like a haphazard draft, and you’re wondering why you’re not getting any “hires.”
In my consultation practice, I treat dating like a career. And just like a career, you need a professional strategy to succeed. Here’s why your dating “resume” is failing you – and how a consultation can turn it into a love?getting machine.
SUBHEADING: The “Dating Resume” Audit
When I do a consultation, the first thing I audit is your “dating resume.” That includes:
- Your profile bio: Is it generic (“I love travel and wine”) or specific (“I’ve been to 47 countries and my favorite wine is a bold Malbec”)?
- Your photos: Are they recent, high?quality, and do they show your personality? Or are they blurry selfies and group shots where no one knows which one is you?
- Your first messages: Are you starting conversations that lead to dates, or are they dying after two exchanges?
- Your date behavior: Are you showing up as your best self, or are you nervous, defensive, or trying too hard?
Most people fail this audit miserably. But the fix is simple – once you know what to change.
SUBHEADING: The “Elevator Pitch” Exercise
One of my clients, Rachel, was a 40?year?old lawyer. She was smart, successful, and attractive. But her profile read like a legal document – dry, factual, and passionless.
We rewrote her bio using the “Elevator Pitch” framework:
- Hook: Catch their attention in the first sentence. “I’m a lawyer who actually knows how to have fun – and I can cross?examine you on your favorite movie.”
- Value: What makes you unique? “I’ve climbed Kilimanjaro, I speak three languages, and I make a mean lasagna.”
- Call to Action: What do you want them to do? “If you can keep up with me intellectually and make me laugh, swipe right.”
Within a week, she had triple the matches – and her first date led to a relationship that’s still going strong.
SUBHEADING: The “Photo Strategy” That Gets Results
Photos are the first thing people see. And they’re often the reason you get swiped left. Here’s what works:
- One clear face shot: Not a selfie – a proper portrait. Smile. Show your eyes.
- One full?body shot: Be honest. No weird angles. Authenticity is attractive.
- One action shot: Doing something you love – hiking, cooking, playing an instrument.
- One social shot: With friends, laughing. Shows you’re fun and sociable.
- Avoid: Sunglasses, hats, group shots, bathroom selfies, and ex?crop jobs.
SUBHEADING: The Consultation “Re?brand”
A professional consultation doesn’t just tweak your profile – it re?brands your entire dating presence. We help you:
- Find your “dating voice”: Are you funny, serious, intellectual, or adventurous? We’ll craft a voice that attracts the right people.
- Develop a conversation strategy: No more awkward silences. We give you 10 go?to questions that spark chemistry.
- Plan your first date: We’ll tell you where to go, what to wear, and how to end the night for a second date.
SUBHEADING: The ROI of a Consultation
Let’s be honest: you’ve wasted thousands on bad dates. For the price of one consultation, you can stop wasting and start winning.
Your turn. Book a consultation and let us turn your dating “resume” into a love?getting machine.
